Problem seems to arise from initial values chosen.
Symbols $(r-z)$ used could represent a meridian of a surface of revolution comprising dimensionless terms.
$$ \dfrac {rr''}{1+r^{'2}}= 2 \dfrac{rr'}{z} + 1 $$
Qualitatively, this ODE is a combination of two tendencies. Separately taken,
the first ODE
$$ \dfrac {rr''}{1+r^{'2}}=k$$
represents curvature ratio progressively (1,2,3,4) ( catenary, cone, sphere and Weingarten profiles ). Integrating one obtains slope
$$ \cos \phi = {r}/{r_{(max/min)}} = k $$
and the second ODE
$$ \dfrac{rr'}{z} =\dfrac{rr'}{zz'} =const\; i.e.,\; \dfrac{dr^2}{dz^2} =\dfrac{2rr'}{2zz'}=const$$
can be put in a form to represent conicoids $ r^2 + k z^2 =1 $ that transition from hyperbolic paraboloid, cone, ellipsoid surfaces of revolution.
How they are transitioning be seen in this interesting problem, and it was a pleasure to realize some of its details.
Boundary conditions are chosen to capture full real solution for these sets.
The initial high slope and low radius tried out earlier seems not a suitable choice of initial conditions. In view of ellipsoidal closed profiling tendency expected from above logic I took zero starting initial value slope for one profiles and also varied start slope from a fixed initial point and another profiles set. Terminated the profile on crash by ode stiffness, infinite curvatures as happens for cusps. The surface is influenced only slightly due to action of $z$ term.
zmin = -4; zmax = 2.205;
NDSolve[{(1 + 2 r[z] r'[z]/z) - r[z] r''[z]/(1 + r'[z]^2) == 0,
r[zmin] == 1, r'[zmin] == 0}, r, {z, zmin, zmax}];
rn[u_] = r[u] /. First[%];
g3 = Plot[rn[z], {z, zmin, 2.205}, GridLines -> Automatic,
PlotStyle -> Thick];
CurvRatio3 =
Plot[rn[z] rn''[z]/(1 + rn'[z]^2), {z, zmin, 2.205},
GridLines -> Automatic, PlotLabel -> Curvtr_Ratio,
PlotStyle -> Thick];
Plot[{rn[z], rn'[z], rn''[z]}, {z, zmin, 2.205},
GridLines -> Automatic, PlotStyle -> Thick]
zmin = -2.5; zmax = 1.326;
NDSolve[{(1 + 2 r[z] r'[z]/z) - r[z] r''[z]/(1 + r'[z]^2) == 0,
r[zmin] == 1, r'[zmin] == 0}, r, {z, zmin, zmax}];
rn[u_] = r[u] /. First[%];
g4 = Plot[rn[z], {z, zmin, zmax}, GridLines -> Automatic,
PlotStyle -> Thick];
CurvRatio4 =
Plot[rn[z] rn''[z]/(1 + rn'[z]^2), {z, zmin, zmax},
GridLines -> Automatic, PlotLabel -> Curvtr_Ratio,
PlotStyle -> Thick];
zmin = -1; zmax = 0.6731;
NDSolve[{(1 + 2 r[z] r'[z]/z) - r[z] r''[z]/(1 + r'[z]^2) == 0,
r[zmin] == 1, r'[zmin] == 0}, r, {z, zmin, zmax}];
rn[u_] = r[u] /. First[%];
g5 = Plot[rn[z], {z, zmin, 0.6731}, GridLines -> Automatic,
PlotStyle -> Thick];
CurvRatio5 = Plot[rn[z] rn''[z]/(1 + rn'[z]^2), {z, zmin, 0.6731}];
Show[{g3, g4, g5}, AspectRatio -> 0.5, PlotRange -> {{-4, 4}, {0, 4}}]
Show[{CurvRatio3, CurvRatio4, CurvRatio5}, AspectRatio -> .8,
PlotRange -> {{-4, 4}, {-2.5, 1.1}}]
ParametricPlot3D [{rn[z] Cos[t], z, rn[z] Sin[t]}, {z, zmin,
0.6731}, {t, -Pi/2, Pi/2}, PlotStyle -> Yellow, Axes -> False ,
Boxed -> False]
Appreciate your comments, especially about the unified but transitioning nature of profiles from one non-linear DE to the other in this manner.