This is not an answer. I can't give one as I have no access to Windows. However, it describes an experiment that I think might cast some light on how each of your options is affecting the rendering of a slider.
When I run into a problem with the space allocated to a control, I find it useful experiment with variations that have a frame drawn around the control. This gives me a better visual assessment of the problem. So to investigate your problem, I built a grid of framed sliders with option variations.
Grid[
Map[
Slider[0.5, Sequence @@ #] &,
{{{},
{Appearance -> "DownArrow"}},
{{ImageSize -> {Automatic, 50}},
{Appearance -> "DownArrow", ImageSize -> {Automatic, 50}}}},
{2}]]
I am running V10.2 on OS X, and on my system the above code gives
I conclude that
- Changing the appearance of the slider thumb has only a slight effect on the height of the thumb and, thus, on the height of the allocated space.
- The ImageSize option has no effect on the height of the slider thumb
These conclusions only apply to OS X and maybe only specific version of OS X I am running. I suggest that you run my experiment or a similar one on your system and see if your results differ.