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I always use the terminal's htop for this, but wouldn't it be nice to visualize per kernel the memory used in a dynamic expression?
This might come close to your need;
Dynamic[Refresh[MemoryInUse, UpdateInterval -> 1]]
This will update every second the amount of memory used by the kernel.
Required, but never shown