I want to compute a matrix $M_{pq}$, for which the calculation of each coefficients $M_{pq} = f(p,q)$ is an expensive function. I know that my matrix is hermitian, so that $M_{qp} = M_{pq}^{*}$. As a consequence, I only need to compute roughly one half of the matrix coefficients to determine entirely the matrix $M$. Once I performed the expensive calculation of determining the list
halfM = Table[f[p,q],{p,1,n},{q,p,n}];
I then have all the information needed to reconstruct the full matrix $M$.
My question is then :
How would you then build-up the matrix $M$ ensuring that no other calculations are performed ? What could be the best way to operate on the lists in order to construct $M$ ?