Here is the answer that, with @Chip's and @Michael's help, I came to:
$DateStringFormat = {"Year", "-", "Month", "-", "Day", " ", "Hour", ":", "Minute", ":", "Second", ".", "Foo"};
System`DateStringDump`convertDateStringForms[{__, s_}, _, _, "Foo"] := Module[{n = 6}, StringTake[ToString[PaddedForm[N[Round[s, 10^-n]], {30, n}]], -n]];
DateObject[{2014, 11, 7, 8, 0, 0}] + Quantity[6.100000, "Second"]
DateObject[{2014, 11, 7, 8, 0, 0}] + Quantity[6.0000107, "Second"]
DateObject[{2014, 11, 7, 8, 0, 0}] + Quantity[6.0000108, "Second"]
DateObject[{2014, 11, 7, 8, 0, 0}] + Quantity[6.12345671, "Second"]
DateObject[{2014, 11, 7, 8, 0, 0}] + Quantity[6.12345672, "Second"]
Still, two things bother me: (1) I can't find documentation about "DateStringDump" in the Mathematica documentation, or anywhere on Google! (2) Why does Round[_,10^-6] yield .0000107→.000010 and .0000108→.000011; and why .12345671→.123456 and .12345672→.123457? I see no pattern here. ...Maddening.