Defining a piecewise function where the conditions are points

Question

I am trying to define the following function in Mathematica:

$$pw=\begin{cases} x y \cos \left(\frac{1}{x^2+y^2}\right) & (x,y)\neq(0,0) \\ 0 & (x,y)=(0,0) \end{cases}$$

I want to use this to calculate the derivative of $pw$ with respecto to $v=(a,b)$ at $(0,0)$ with

$$\lim_{h\to 0} \frac{pw(ha,hb)-pw(0,0)}{h}$$

by writing Limit[(pw[h*a,h*b]-pw[0,0])/h,h->0]. I do not want to worry about the value of $pw$ at $(0,0)$.

(In general, I would like to do this for as many variables as needed).

I can correctly define the function if the conditions are intervals ($x>0$ or $-\pi<y<7\pi$ for instance). However, when the condition is a point, I am at a loss.

I tried:

The naive approach with:

pw[x_,y_]=Piecewise[{{x*y*Cos[1/(x^2 + y^2)], (x,y)!=(0,0)}, {0, (x,y)==(0,0)}}]

A more clever, albeit less general, approach:

pw[x_,y_]=Piecewise[{{x*y*Cos[1/(x^2 + y^2)], x^2+y^2!=0}, {0, x^2+y^2==0}}]

The idea behind this one is that the point $(0,0)$ is the only one that satisfies $x^2+y^2=0$ (because it is a sum of positives). However, this wouldn't work for all points $(a,b)$.

This other thing:

pw[x_,y_]=Piecewise[{{x*y*Cos[1/(x^2 + y^2)], x==0 && y==0}},0]

Which doesn't give anything.

UPDATE: Xavier posted a function that works as I expected:

Piecewise[{{x*y*Cos[1/(x^2 + y^2)], x != 0 || y != 0}}]

However, I am now having trouble with evaluating the limit. As $(a,b)$ could be anything, $pw[ha,hb]$ evaluates to the whole Piecewise function. I want to force $(a,b)\neq(0,0)$ so I tried using Assuming[a != 0 || b != 0, Limit[(pw[h*a, h*b] - pw[0, 0])/h, h -> 0]] which doesn't solve it cause it changes the $x$ and $y$ in the condtion for $a$ and $b$. How could I evaluate the limit?

UPDATE 2: I tried Limit[((Refine[pw[a, b], a != 0 || b != 0] /. {a -> h*a, b -> h*b}) - pw[0, 0])/h, h -> 0] and another function that has nice derivatives. It seems to do the correct operations. I sometimes get a weird answer, but by setting $(a,b)=$some numbers I get nice output.

I'm not sure if this is a correct use of the edit function (updating with progress I mean). Should I delete everything that doesn't contribute to the current problem or leave it to show workings?

P.S.: I'm kind of new here, so please let me know if I can improve my posts format, wording or conciseness-wise. Criticism is welcome.